8/01/2016

Miss Hallie Bell's Birth Story

I finally finished Hallie's birth story. It's detailed and long. I want to remember every minute of that experience. Well, MOST of it. 

Griffin was Frank Breech so I had a scheduled C-section, and I never went in to actual labor.  I was not sure what to expect this time around.  At least two weeks before Hallie was born, I started having braxton hicks contractions at night.  They would keep awake so bad that I would get around 3 hours of sleep some nights.  It may have been my brain keeping me up wondering if this was it rather than the actual contractions.

I had a Dr. appointment on April 6th.  I was 39 weeks exactly, and getting nervous that I wouldn't go into labor on my own.  I had planned for a VBAC the entire pregnancy so I was hoping for some good news since Dr's don't like to induce women who have previously had a C-Section.  I had been 1 cm dilated 2 weeks before and 2 cm dilated the week before.  This time, it was 3 cm.  I was a little disappointed, but at least there was progress.  I asked her to strip my membranes because my cousin had that done, and she went into labor that night.  She said she would hurt, and OUCH.  I had a few contractions throughout the morning that felt like Braxton Hicks with a little pain at the end.  After lunch, they started getting a little more painful and 20-15 minutes apart.  I tried not to get too excited thinking it was probably a false alarm.

By the time Stephen got home, the contractions were about 10 minutes apart but not that painful.  I remember both of my cousins telling me that I would know when it was the real thing, but I also remembered my mom telling me that I was born within two hours of her water breaking.  I prayed and prayed that my water would break so I would know for sure when to go to the hospital.  My Dr. said 5 minutes apart for one hour.  By 9 pm they were 5-10 minutes apart.  I told Stephen to make sure his clothes were packed and everything was ready.  They still were not close enough together to call the Dr. so we laid down in bed to relax about 10:30.  I had just laid down, and I felt a little trickle.  I went to the bathroom without saying anything to Stephen to make sure.  Yep, it was barely happening, but my water broke!  We called the hospital, my parents to come meet us there, and his parents to start the drive from Kentucky, and we were on our way.

We let Griffin ride with us to the hospital. He was so cute in his jammies walking around in the lobby. My parents met us there, and I went back to confirm my water had broken and I hadn't just unknowingly peed myself. It took two tests and over 30 minutes to confirm what I already knew. My water had broken, and we got to stay.

By this time, it was after midnight. We got settled into our room, and all hooked up. They checked me again, and I was around 4 cm. They kept asking if I wanted them to call my Dr. I didn't want to drag her to the hospital only to have to wait around all night so I said no. Then someone told me I couldn't get an epidural until I was checked by my Dr. I wasn't in unbearable pain yet, but they were getting stronger so I was nervous to wait.

 She arrived less than 30 minutes later. She decided to try and break my water the rest of the way. Oh the pain. She was unable to do it, but her attempt sent my contracts from a 4 on the pain scale to about a 127. I couldn't get the epidural fast enough. It took about an hour to get the epidural. By this time, I was in a lot of pain. I was numb from the waist down, but I still felt every contraction. The nurse checked me again, and I was progressing fast. Before I knew it, it was time to push.

I will never forget the pushing portion of this experience. It was so different than what I imagined. The biggest lamp you have ever seen was pointing right at my personal business. I am as modest as they come, but the nurse, my sweet angel nurse Becky, insisted pushing would help ease the pain. At this moment, I was free as a bird. They informed me I would push 3 times during each contraction. 3 sets of 10 seconds. I pushed during 3 contractions, and they yelled to stop. I was terrified something was wrong, but they said we were about to have a baby without the Dr.

My Dr. came in very surprised and looking like she had been woken up from a long winter's nap. I said, "You were sleeping weren't you?" I wanted to say, "Can I get you some Red Bull because I need you awake for this!" She is amazing, though, and sat right down and got to work. We had a baby less than five minutes later.

Miss Hallie Bell King was born at 3:51 am. She was the most precious 7 lb 2 oz, beautiful baby girl I have ever seen. They showed her to me, and my first thought was, Those Cheeks! My Dr's first words were, "Wow. She's way bigger than I thought she was." Ha. They checked her out, and I finally got to hold my sweetest girl. She was a snuggler and a mommy's girl right away. Just the way I like them. Perfect in every way.



Love this one!

Big Brother Griffin came the next morning.

One of my favorite pictures, ever.




Going home!

I look back and remember these days so fondly. She continues to bless our family more than we could have ever imagined. We love you, Sweet Girl!


    

7/15/2015

Boy Pregnancy vs Girl Pregnancy

I was one of those women that had strong feelings during each of my pregnancies.  With Griffin, I really thought he was a boy from the very beginning.  Not sure if that feeling came from both of us wanting to have a boy first or if there really is such a thing as Mother's intuition.  I had a strong feeling the second time around that we would be having a girl.  I did have some pretty major differences between the two.

I started to feel the morning sickness with both at about 6 weeks.  I only had a few actual getting sick episodes with each, but I felt MISERABLE, and could barely eat.  With Griffin, I lost about 10 pounds, and I lost around 8 with Hallie.  I found that I could drink smoothies and eat grilled chicken and a baked potatoes for dinner.  (That is until I added BBQ sauce to my chicken one night).  With Griffin, once it was over, it was over.  With my girl, I would think I was fine, and then it would just hit me.  Picture this: out shopping one morning with Griffin and the poor Hubby.  Driving down the interstate, and I get sick all of the sudden.  We can't stop fast enough so I reach for anything.  All I found was a Chikfila bag.  Note: A paper bag is not a great choice.  Side note: We were in our new car of a week.  I will let you use your imagination on the details, but I will say I headed straight for the shower, and my husband is a saint.

I had already experienced unexplained, out of control gestational diabetes with Griffin.  I prepared myself for this worst this time.  Since I had it before, the Dr. insisted I take the 3 hour glucose test at 8 weeks.  Morning sickness, fasting, and that nasty orange drink DO NOT MIX.  I barely failed the second hour so I had to do it again.  The next time, I got the same result so yep, AGAIN.  I took the three hour test three times. Not. Cool.  That was by far the worst part.  She said I failed, but only by a little each time.  We agreed that I would check my blood sugar myself occasionally and for the most part keep it to 3 snacks and 3 meals per day with around 30g of carbs.  I had a bad reading or two after some pasta and a pb&j, but it was manageable.  Much better than insulin every morning, and for that, I am thankful.

I will be very interested to see how I feel while pregnant with any future King Babies to see if I can predict on my own.  It will be a while, but we shall see!


                                         Baby #1                                                                   Baby #2



Pregnancy #2

We started trying for baby number two in June 2014.  We agreed we would wait until Griffin was one and half before we started trying again, and I was the Matron of Honor at my BFF's wedding in June so it was the perfect time.  I was a little nervous because patience is not my virtue, and Griffin was somewhat of a surprise.  

On August 2nd, we were heading to a friend's wedding in Nashville, and it was a day or two early, but I wanted to take a test just in case so I wouldn't feel guilty later about my one or two glasses of wine.  And there it was!


We were super excited and a little nervous, but in the best way!

The day we found out.


36 weeks & 38 weeks

Easter 2015
The day before I went into labor.

This pregnancy went by so much faster than my first.  Chasing a toddler around really made the time fly.  it also made morning/all day sickness infinitely worse because sitting down during the day was rare.  After all of that passed, life went back to normal, and we got super excited.  Truthfully, I love being pregnant, and I miss it already.